Category: Life

Every other post.

  • Homophobia in an Ontario Catholic School Board

    Homophobia in an Ontario Catholic School Board

    The Halton Catholic District School Board serves 29,000 elementary and secondary school students in the municipalities of Oakville, Burlington, Milton and Halton Mills. It has enacted a policy to ban Gay-Straight Alliance (GSA) clubs from forming in their schools.

    For those who aren’t familiar with GSAs, they’re support groups for queer students and their allies. A safe haven where students can talk openly, free of the pressures and ridicule they might encounter at home, in their community, or at school.

    Mrs. Alice Anne LeMay, chair of the Halton Catholic District School Board defends the ban on such clubs. From the article in Xtra:

    “We don’t have Nazi groups either,” rationalizes board chair Alice Anne LeMay. “Gay-straight alliances are banned because they are not within the teachings of the Catholic Church.”

    “If a gay student requests a gay-straight alliance they would be denied,” she says flatly.

    Mrs. Alice Anne LeMay

    In other words, the Catholic church demonizes gays, and therefore so will her school board. To equate this kind of support group to something akin to Nazi-ism is sadly indicative of her overall views of that segment of the students under her care.

    Michael Pautler, the education director of the school board noted:

    “All students that attend school should be able to feel free of harassment and are protected from any forms of persecution or anything that makes them feel marginalized.”

    Indeed they should Mr. Pautler. Yet it must be hard for a queer student not to feel marginalized, when their own school enacts policies to marginalize them. It must be hard to feel free of persecution and harassment, when their own school is headed by someone who believes that their very existence is flawed, and denies them the opportunity to create the one space where they would be free of harassment and persecution.

    When you deny support groups to those who need them, what do you think happens? When those who need support don’t get it, what do you think happens? I’ll give you a hint: the suicide rate for gay teens is four times that of their straight counterparts. We’re talking lives here.

    This is prejudice, pure and simple. And no tax dollars of mine should be supporting this kind of idiocy.

    Shame on you Alice Anne LeMay.

    Update January 17th: The Ottawa Catholic School Board also doesn’t allow Gay-Straight Alliance clubs. They learned from Halton’s public relations mistakes though. Instead of equating gays with Nazis, they said they don’t allow the clubs in name only “because the Assembly of Ontario Bishops — to whom school boards look for spiritual guidance — prefer a name that reflects a more general focus on equity and social justice.” That’s a really nice marketing spin.

    Simple rhetorical question: are the groups to explicitly support LGBT students allowed? No. Why not? Because the Church doesn’t want them. They want to marginalize it’s purpose by incorporating issues, under the guise of equity and justice. Cognitive dissonance much?

  • Paul, Part III

    Paul, Part III

    Following the events of Part I and Part II of my encounters with Paul’s telephone stalking, he’s now back at it. For the last few days, I’ve kept getting calls from “Private Caller.” I’d answer, and the person on the other end would immediately hang up.

    Since WIND does not hide numbers when you look up your phone records online, I was able to get the phone number of the person calling me. It’s a cell phone number with Telus mobility.

    I called back using Skype. “Hey it’s Paul, I’m unavailable, leave a message.” Paul now has a cell phone. So, after having called me incessantly from work, from home, and then doing the latter by blocking his caller ID, he’s on to his newly acquired cell phone.

    The Logs: (Thus Far)

    21 Dec 09:59 AM 613315XXXX Incoming 00:04 Seconds
    21 Dec 07:55 AM 613315XXXX Incoming 00:02 Seconds
    20 Dec 03:15 PM 613315XXXX Incoming 00:03 Seconds
    20 Dec 08:33 AM 613315XXXX Incoming 00:00 Seconds
    20 Dec 07:46 AM 613315XXXX Incoming 00:03 Seconds
    18 Dec 04:08 PM 613315XXXX Incoming 00:03 Seconds
  • To my uncle Gord

    To my uncle Gord

    My uncle Gord passed away yesterday, after a long battle with cancer. Miss you. Here he is with my two fantastic cousins.

  • Life is good

    Life is good

    We don't own a cat. I just thought this picture was adorable and Christmas-y.

    In the last month:

    • Jay & I moved. Our new home is downtown, minutes away from where all the action happens. The bus routes here are great, and yet despite its central location, it’s quiet as can be. We’re no longer surrounded by neighbours who have their subwoofers on max at 3AM! No more old ladies that glare at you when you come home! No having to take a taxi to get home on Sundays because bus service stopped for our part of town! A big thanks to our friends & family who helped us move: Jeremy, JT Alfons, Eric, Max, Chaiya, Brad, and Jay’s parents.
    • I joined a gym. I’ve been going three times a week for three weeks now. While I weigh more now than ever before, or so at least I suspect, I feel much better. I have more energy now. Every time I come out of that gym, I just feel so great.
    • I got out of my burn out. I had a burn out because of work. This was work related to my trip to South Africa. In any case, work got to me. I had a sit down with my boss, and we were able to resolve the issue. As a consequence, things are much better at work now.
    • I decided to resume work on the Botnet movie starting January 1st. I stopped working on Botnet when I was in the burnout. I just had no will to do it, despite a great support network including DJ IDE, who kept doing his best to make this happen. The new plan is to shoot every weekend until it’s done.
    • JT Alfons finished his book, Surrogate Stars. Which means he is now fully free to be the lead on Botnet. Selfish me! :p
    • Befuddler (link) is a success. At least, if you were to define success by how many download sites it has spread to (link). I’m sure most of that spreading is automated, but don’t burst my bubble. :p In the “that’s random” category, someone in Japan talked about Rice Tea (link).
    • It’s winter and Christmas will be here in less than 9 days. Need I say more?

    That’s all for now. And again: A big thank you to everyone who helped Jay and I move!

  • A reminder why I wouldn’t buy an eBook

    A reminder why I wouldn’t buy an eBook

    Since my last post on the matter (link), I have actually purchased an eBook reader. It’s a Sony thing, which works quite well. That said, I still insist that I’ll never buy an eBook – at least one that’s DRMed. This reader is for work PDF documents, books in the public domain, and other items I can obtain legally.

    A story just came out (link) that reminds me why I have no appetite for paid-for DRMed eBook: Amazon just decided to take down a portion of it’s erotica books from it’s site. Not only is it doing that, however, but it’s also going to remove those books off of the personal libraries of the customers that bought the titles. You read that right: they’re going to delete books from the customers that purchased them.

    The Kindle

    The erotica books in question deal with incest. Alright, so incest is not my thing. But these books deal with adults, and as far as I’m concerned, you should be able to read whatever floats your boat. We’re talking about words and language here.

    If Amazon wants to take the books off of their site, that’s fine. They’re allowed to choose what they want to sell or not. What crosses the line is when they go into their customer’s private space, into their digital library, and delete the content they don’t want their customers to have. This is why I maintain that when you buy something that’s DRMed, you don’t own it. You think you’re purchasing it, but in fact, these companies are “renting” whatever you bought – at full price.

    Another DRM frustration: I bought a good game the other day called Wings of Prey (link). It’s a good game, but the DRM they put on it limits me the amount of times I can install it to 3 times. Keep in mind, games I love, like Battlefield 2, have been easily installed a dozen times over the last five years. My computers change, the hard drives die, shit happens. So now if I install Wings of Prey twice more, I’ll be forbidden from using the product I legally purchased.

    Wings of Prey

    The most annoying bit is that this is all in the name of stopping piracy, and yet, it doesn’t. The pirates still get to play the game, and they don’t even get their books deleted off of their eReaders, or have limits on how many times they can enjoy the game that you or I purchased at full price.

    A quick search for a pirated version of Wings of Prey

    Piracy is supposed to entice people because it’s free, not because it’s better.